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Your CommentsThis page gives the feedback and comments that have been received about the website from people who have used the ideas and approaches described. If you have any questions in relation to the content of the website that you would like answered, please use the form on the Questions? page for this.
Comment: Hi Alan, You have put together an awesome web site with lots of fantastic materials. John Ford - Managing Editor Mediate.com
After reading the Rescuer Syndrome section of your website I was inspired to try Byron Katie's approach to her sons arguing. Two of my sons age 10 and 3 argue some of the time and I always end up somewhere in the middle and nearly always being the bad guy to either one or both. It's impossible to please both and if you punish one it is bound to be the wrong one (in their eyes). So the day I read your site as if on cue the boys had a big row. I took a massive step back and ignored the pleas from both to intervene and tell the other off. I just looked on to see where this would lead. My youngest son, who generally comes off worse as he is not as physically or verbally able as the older, showed his frustration by tearing up a picture of his brother saying "this is what I think of you". At this point the argument seemed to fizzle out and ended up with older son explaining to younger how by tearing up his picture he had hurt his feelings and then asked him "How would you like it if I tore up a picture of you?" Younger son said that "It would make me feel sad". With that their argument was settled and they went off together and played happily for the rest of the afternoon. I was absolutely amazed. They had argued, sorted out the argument with older son explaining his feelings to younger and I stayed in everyone's good books. I call that a result. Sending you thanks KC - Wolverhampton, UK
Your site is really good!!! AW - Relationship Coach, Bristol, UK
I always interrupt my wife, and I have a hard time listening to her. I found some very useful beginnings to healing my inabilities. Randy - USA
I reckon your site is just amazing with thoughts/words that many of us should try to embrace and the world could be a much brighter and more peaceful place just to be !!! Its really easy to follow the flow of your words and I love the links to other people also with beautiful ideas-thoughts. JN - London, UK
Thankz for the Newsletter. I found the content interesting and educating. Keep keeping on.
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