A Guide to Effective Communication for Conflict Resolution introduces the 9 Principles that are also described on this site to help the reader develop a 'mindfulness' in relation to their communication in a way that supports the resolution of conflict. In this book
Alan shares his observations and learnings from working as a Mediator and Conflict Coach with regard to the ways that people become stuck in unresolved conflict but also how they go on to create more effective ways forward in their difficult situations.
"I think you put together so well all the essential components of
conflict transformation in a way which people can relate to and
understand. A brilliant book and I will recommend it to everyone."
Jo Berry - BuildingBridgesForPeace.org
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That we speak for ourselves using I-statements, Principle 5 of the Principles of Effective Communication
This page gives links to websites that promote a similar approach to communication and conflict resolution to that described on this site.
Why and how I-statements support effective communication and conflict resolution. Examples of I-statements to illustrate. Use in relationships, for couples, workplace communication, community issues.
A listening exercise which enables participants to reflect on various aspects of the experience of listening and being listened to as well as the experience of being the speaker in a situation.
4-word-build - a conflict resolution exercise for gaining a shared understanding of a concept in a group or team. The exercise enables all present to participate in the creation of the shared view.
The Rescuer Syndrome - the main obstacle to being able to provide effective conflict resolution support.
Effective listening - It's not just down to eye contact and nodding!
That we do not interrupt one another, Principle 2 of the Principles of Effective Communication, mediation, mediators, Voltaire, Stephen R.Covey, Andrew G.Marshall
That we treat each other with respect, Principle 1 of the Principles of Effective
Deal with workplace bullying allegations effectively. Workplace disputes often involve allegations of bullying. This 56 page Handbook helps you support resolution whether the situation is your own or it involves someone you are supporting.
When I look back on what work experiences I have loved as well as those I didn’t love as much, I find that whether I like a job or not has as much to do
Principles of effective interpersonal communication and how to apply them. This article explains The Principles of Effective Communication drawn from the experiences of mediation.
A website about the relationship between communication and conflict. Articles on conflict resolution, mediation, why effective communication is important for conflict management in relationships.
Why is bullying in the workplace not dealt with effectively? Here's a way of responding that improves workplace relationships and resolves the issue of bullying.
How a No-blame approach, an Underlying Philosophy of Mediation, has benefits for the resolution of conflict, complaints and promotes individual and organisational learning.
Communication and Conflict e-book - A pdf Guide to The Principles of Effective Communication and Conflict Resolution - just $7
Conflict Coaching - 1-to-1 support for people who are experiencing a difficult relationship or unresolved conflict to create more effective ways of responding. Conflict resolution, mediation, effective communication, creativity
Skills training in Mediation, Conflict Coaching and Effective Communication, Conflict Management from CAOS Conflict Management in London, UK
This Guide outlines principles of effective communication for conflict resolution. How mindful communication supports growth through conflict. Listening skills. Conflict as an opportunity for learning and change.
This page contains a list of books, all of which relate to supporting effective interpersonal communication and conflict resolution
A free e-book - Contemplations on Communication and Conflict -7 articles on conflict resolution/interpersonal communication articles from the Newsletter archive.
This page explores how to be constructively angry in a way that leads to learning and change and not destructively angry through violence, abuse or vandalism. It compares examples of constructive expression of anger with destructive expression of anger.
This page describes a conflict management training exercise used to explore the assumptions we make about others when we meet them.
This page explores resolution of workplace disputes via the use of the principles and practices described on the website.
This page describes the practice and purpose of summarising in effective interpersonal communication and conflict resolution.
Additional information about the Communication and Conflict website and the importance of effective communication skills for conflict resolution in relationships.
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This page looks at the approach to mediation taken by the website author and by his colleagues CAOS Conflict Management where he works.
Confidentiality is both an Underlying Philosophy of Mediation and a Principle of Effective Communication and is crucial in supporting effective conflict resolution.
Why supporting empowerment is a crucial aim in mediation and any approach to effective conflict resolution
You are in the middle of serving a customer in a book shop and another customer comes up and demands that you help her get a book down from a high shelf.
Hi I am an artist and currently looking into assumptions and how there are many different versions of me out there that may be very different to how I
How do I talk to him when he looks through the garage for things of his are gone. I am always blamed and we end up fighting. I have to let him in the
Once I worked with a lesbian couple and one day, one of them said, of something in the workplace she thought was stupid, Well that's gay! I did a double-take,
That we have the right to pass, Principle 3 of the Principles of Effective Communication
How interpreting body language and other non-verbal behaviour leads to disconnection between people.
This page provides a guided visualisation to help you respond more effectively to any conflict you have in your life
The London Mediation Training Course run by CAOS Conflict Management draws upon all the information, philosophies, principles and communication skills described on this website.
This page describes the use of effective questioning skills to support conflict resolution, instead of suggestions, to empower those involved to create a resolution that works for them.
This page looks at the ineffective approach to conflict which treats it as a problem, something to be feared or avoided. Ultimately, this approach does not resolve it.
Are you UK-based and looking for mediation, conflict coaching or training in communication and/or conflict resolution related issues?
If so, please contact Alan via his organisation website at CAOS Conflict Management